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The Psychology of your 20s

A podcast that explains how everything is psychology. Even your 20s. Hosted by Jemma Sbeg, each Tuesday and Friday we deep dive into the science and psychology behind a topic, concept or universal experience that defines our 20s - from dating, to mental health, career anxiety, friendship, finances and all the growing pains associated with this decade. Listen now. Watch on Netflix: HERE Follow Jemma on Instagram: @ jemmasbeg Follow the podcast on Instagram: @ thatpsychologypodcast Subscribe on Substack: @ thepsychologyofyour20s For business: [email protected]

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464. The psychology of cults

01 Oct 2026
56m
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Cults function as high-control groups that systematically strip individuals of critical thinking and personal autonomy through the BITE model—behavior, information, thought, and emotional control. While often confused with intense fandoms or religions, true cults demand absolute obedience, isolate members from external...

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463. The 5 reasons you’re not as behind as you think

28 Sep 2026
48m
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The pervasive anxiety of feeling "behind" in one's 20s is a psychological construct fueled by cognitive biases and outdated social norms rather than objective reality. Social media platforms trigger survivorship bias by presenting curated, aspirational outliers as the standard, while the "social clock"—a culturally spe...

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462. The truth about the Stanford Prison Experiment

27 Sep 2026
29m
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The Stanford Prison Experiment, conducted by Philip Zimbardo in 1971, investigated how institutional roles and power dynamics influence human behavior. By randomly assigning college students to roles as prisoners or guards in a simulated environment, the study sought to determine whether ordinary individuals inherently...

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461. 10 things I NEEDED 21 year old me to know

24 Sep 2026
37m
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Reflecting on the transition through one's 20s reveals that personal growth often stems from unexpected experiences rather than rigid adherence to a conventional life plan. Prioritizing independent living and individual development proves more valuable than prematurely settling into domestic life with a partner. Financ...

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460. The psychology of 'good girl' syndrome

21 Sep 2026
44m
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Good Girl Syndrome describes a collection of learned compliance patterns where women chronically suppress authentic needs and emotions to secure approval and avoid conflict. This phenomenon, rooted in early childhood conditioning and the "fawning" survival response, manifests as hypervigilance, over-explaining, and an ...

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459. I'm so tired of being ambitious

17 Sep 2026
33m
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Ambition often functions as a psychological coping mechanism for deep-seated insecurities, rooted in a lifelong pursuit of external validation. While high achievement provides temporary boosts to self-esteem, it frequently triggers the "hedonic treadmill," where accomplishments yield only fleeting satisfaction and nece...

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458. Can embracing stress actually help us?

14 Sep 2026
36m
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Stress functions as an ancient, inbuilt survival mechanism rather than an inherently negative state, necessitating a shift from total avoidance to active management. While chronic stress remains a health concern, acute stress often serves as a vital motivator that signals what requires attention. Cognitive appraisal—th...

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457. The psychology of 'false' memories

12 Sep 2026
30m
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Human memory functions as a reconstructive process rather than a static recording, frequently filling gaps with fragments of emotion, expectations, and external suggestions. This malleability makes individuals susceptible to the misinformation effect and imagination inflation, where repeated visualization or suggestive...

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456. Why does feeling sad sometimes feel so good?

10 Sep 2026
31m
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Sadness serves a vital psychological function, acting as a source of emotional depth, clarity, and meaning rather than merely an experience to be avoided. The "tragedy paradox" explains why humans find pleasure in sad music and films; these mediums provide emotional intensity without real-world consequences, allowing f...

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455. Why does time start flying in our 20s?

07 Sep 2026
41m
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Time perception accelerates with age primarily due to a reduction in novel experiences and the way the brain consolidates memories. While childhood is marked by constant newness that creates distinct, expansive memories, adulthood often falls into monotonous routines that cause time to blur. The digital age further com...

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454. The oedipus complex

06 Sep 2026
31m
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The Oedipus complex, a cornerstone of Sigmund Freud’s psychosexual development theory, posits that young children harbor unconscious sexual desires for their opposite-sex parent while viewing the same-sex parent as a rival. Emerging during the phallic stage, this conflict supposedly shapes personality and social develo...

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453. 7 facts you need to know about your brain

03 Sep 2026
49m
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The human brain functions as a dynamic, lifelong project rather than a static organ that matures at twenty-five. Neuroplasticity allows the nervous system to reorganize its structure and functions in response to experience, enabling personal evolution and recovery from injury. Emotional and physical pain share identica...

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452. How to get better at being alone

31 Aug 2026
46m
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Loneliness often stems from a deep-seated fear of social exclusion, yet distinguishing between involuntary loneliness and voluntary solitude is essential for psychological growth. While survival instincts drive a preference for group belonging, embracing solitude fosters emotional independence, creativity, and self-reg...

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451. Why you need to stop psychoanalysing the people you date

27 Aug 2026
52m
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Psychoanalyzing romantic partners during early dating serves as a defensive mechanism to manage uncertainty and protect the ego from potential rejection. This habit often relies on "concept creep," where clinical terminology is misapplied to everyday behaviors, creating a distorted "parallel relationship" that exists s...

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450. The psychology of the quarter life reinvention

24 Aug 2026
30m
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The quarter life reinvention represents a critical developmental expansion that occurs after the destructive, shedding phase of a quarter life crisis. While the crisis involves an identity vacuum characterized by confusion and anxiety, the subsequent reinvention stage marks a return to the self, defined by identity con...

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449. The psychology of your shadow self

23 Aug 2026
33m
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Shadow work involves identifying and integrating the "shadow self"—the unconscious, often repressed aspects of personality that individuals find difficult to acknowledge. Rooted in Carl Jung’s analytical psychology, this practice explores how archetypes like the hero, ruler, or jester manifest in daily life, particular...

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448. The psychology of reputation

20 Aug 2026
43m
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Reputation functions as a powerful, evolutionary mental shortcut that influences social standing and personal opportunities, yet it is frequently distorted by cognitive biases. While reputations are often built on cooperative, pro-social behavior, they are susceptible to the "halo effect," where physical attractiveness...

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447. The psychology of PMOS/PCOS ft. Dr Hazel Wallace

17 Aug 2026
1h 14m
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PMOS, formerly known as PCOS, represents a complex, full-body condition rather than a localized ovarian issue, involving a network of hormonal, metabolic, and neurological interactions. Diagnosis often remains elusive, frequently requiring patients to navigate years of dismissal before receiving recognition. Key driver...

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446. The psychology of Stockholm Syndrome

15 Aug 2026
31m
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Stockholm Syndrome functions as a paradoxical survival strategy rather than a formal mental health diagnosis, emerging when victims form emotional bonds with captors under extreme conditions. This psychological adaptation, often involving "fawning"—a response where individuals attempt to placate aggressors to reduce ha...

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445. Your guide to nervous system regulation

13 Aug 2026
52m
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