This Modern Love podcast episode explores the moments when people realize they're falling in love, using listener-submitted voicemails as a starting point. The episode features an interview with Modern Love editor Daniel Jones, who discusses the famous "36 questions" essay and its impact on relationships. Mandy Len Catron, author of the essay, then joins to read her piece and shares an update on her relationship ten years later, revealing her upcoming marriage. The episode highlights diverse experiences of falling in love, from grand romantic gestures to small, everyday moments, and suggests that vulnerability and self-revelation are key components of forming deep connections. The 36 questions are presented as a tool to foster intimacy and accelerate the process of falling in love.