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The Psychology of your 20s

A podcast that explains how everything is psychology. Even your 20s. Hosted by Jemma Sbeg, each Tuesday and Friday we deep dive into the science and psychology behind a topic, concept or universal experience that defines our 20s - from dating, to mental health, career anxiety, friendship, finances and all the growing pains associated with this decade. Listen now. Watch on Netflix: HERE Follow Jemma on Instagram: @ jemmasbeg Follow the podcast on Instagram: @ thatpsychologypodcast Subscribe on Substack: @ thepsychologyofyour20s For business: [email protected]

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408. Are our phones killing intimacy?

20 Apr 2026
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Digital devices and constant smartphone connectivity are fueling an "intimacy famine," fundamentally undermining the quality of human relationships. By functioning as a "third party" in social interactions, phones disrupt presence, diminish vulnerability, and replace meaningful in-person connection with superficial, bi...

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407. Loving yourself, will make you more attractive

16 Apr 2026
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Self-perception and internal mental states exert a profound, measurable influence on physical attractiveness and biological health. The mind-body link, specifically the skin-brain axis, demonstrates how chronic stress and self-criticism trigger inflammation and accelerate biological aging, whereas self-love and confide...

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406. How to romanticise your 20s (even when they suck)

13 Apr 2026
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Romanticizing your twenties involves shifting your internal narrative to view life as an unfolding story rather than a series of disconnected, uncontrollable events. This practice relies on cognitive reappraisal, which allows for the reframing of negative experiences to reduce emotional reactivity and improve psycholog...

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405. The psychology of betrayal

09 Apr 2026
43m
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Betrayal's psychological impacts are explored, emphasizing its profound effects on trust, relationships, and self-perception. The discussion highlights that betrayal, regardless of its severity, triggers the brain's threat system, leading to long-term emotional wounds and potential physical manifestations. The host, Je...

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404. I want to do everything, so I do nothing

06 Apr 2026
29m
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The podcast explores the dilemma of wanting to pursue multiple dreams but feeling paralyzed by the fear of making the wrong choice, particularly during one's 20s. It identifies three core fears driving this paralysis: the fear of regret, the fear of failure, and the fear of judgment from others. The host introduces the...

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403. How to do hard things (using psychology)

04 Apr 2026
34m
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The podcast explores how to train the brain to accomplish difficult tasks, particularly in one's 20s, by changing one's perception of those tasks and their rewards. It challenges the notion that hard work must be unenjoyable, suggesting that some of life's best rewards come from embracing challenges. The host introduce...

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402. Why trauma bonding feels so much like love ...

02 Apr 2026
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The podcast episode delves into the complexities of trauma bonds, clarifying the term's true meaning beyond casual usage. It highlights how these bonds differ from ordinary connections, focusing on relationships formed through manipulation and abuse. The discussion covers the initial stages of intense affection and sha...

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401. The psychology of microtrends

30 Mar 2026
46m
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The podcast explores the psychology behind microtrends, particularly why people participate in them despite knowing their fleeting nature and often poor quality. It identifies social proof as a key driver, where individuals look to others for behavioral guidance and acceptance. Social contagion and conformity further i...

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400. 15 things everyone should do in their 20s

26 Mar 2026
48m
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This podcast episode marks its 400th milestone by exploring 15 unconventional yet essential experiences for individuals in their 20s, diverging from traditional societal expectations. It emphasizes the importance of personal development through experiences like living away from one's hometown to disrupt habitual patter...

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399. The psychology of exercise

23 Mar 2026
47m
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The podcast explores the psychology of exercise, examining its effects on the brain, body, and mental health. It details how endorphins and endocannabinoids contribute to the rewarding feelings associated with exercise, while also addressing the somatic and emotional release that movement provides. The host, Jemma, hig...

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398. 5 ways to get unstuck in your 20s

21 Mar 2026
23m
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The podcast addresses the feeling of being stuck in one's 20s, exploring the reasons behind this common experience and offering practical advice on how to overcome it. It suggests that feeling stuck often arises from the overwhelming nature of choices and the sensation that everyone else is progressing faster. The podc...

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397. The psychology of office politics

19 Mar 2026
36m
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The podcast explores the psychology behind office politics, particularly how it affects individuals in their twenties. It highlights the importance of understanding the formal hierarchy versus the informal network in a workplace, as well as recognizing the five main sources of workplace power: legitimate, reward, coerc...

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396. Homesickness

16 Mar 2026
34m
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The podcast episode delves into the complexities of homesickness, framing it as a stress response triggered by the brain's aversion to drastic change and the disruption of established safety and routines. It explores how homesickness can feel like a mini-grief, especially when saying goodbye to familiar environments an...

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395. Is depression just a chemical imbalance?

15 Mar 2026
32m
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The podcast explores the theory that depression is caused by a chemical imbalance, particularly a deficiency in serotonin, and examines the history and validity of this concept. It traces the origins of the theory back to the 1950s and 60s, when the discovery of mood-altering drugs led to the monoamine hypothesis. The ...

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394. What is the pursuer-distancer relationship dynamic?

12 Mar 2026
39m
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The pursuer-distancer dynamic in relationships is explored, focusing on its psychological roots and potential resolutions. The dynamic involves one partner seeking deeper connection while the other resists, creating a frustrating cycle. Distancers are often motivated by a fear of losing their sense of self, while pursu...

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393. The psychology of stoicism

09 Mar 2026
37m
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The podcast explores stoicism, contrasting its common perception as emotion suppression with its potential as an empowering philosophy for navigating life's chaos, particularly during one's 20s. It traces stoicism's origins to Zeno of Citium and its core belief in accepting the world as it is, emphasizing control over ...

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392. Why is whimsy so powerful

05 Mar 2026
39m
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The podcast episode explores the psychology of whimsy, arguing for its emotional and psychological benefits, especially during challenging times. It defines whimsy as playfulness deliberately woven into the ordinary, serving no purpose other than joy, humor, and nostalgia. The episode challenges the dismissal of whimsi...

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391. The unconscious vs. conscious mind

02 Mar 2026
42m
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The podcast explores the dynamics between the conscious and unconscious mind and how understanding this relationship can lead to personal growth. It highlights how the unconscious mind, shaped by past experiences and emotions, often dictates behaviors and choices without conscious awareness. The discussion references h...

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390. The psychology of serial monogamy & relationship hopping

28 Feb 2026
30m
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The podcast episode delves into the phenomenon of serial monogamy, or relationship hopping, exploring the psychological underpinnings and potential drawbacks. It addresses the question of why some individuals consistently seek relationships with little time spent single. Attachment theory is discussed, highlighting how...

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389. How to experience healthy love after toxic love

26 Feb 2026
55m
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The podcast explores the impact of toxic love on one's ability to experience healthy relationships, particularly in one's 20s. It examines how toxic relationships can alter one's nervous system, self-esteem, attachment patterns, and biological wiring, leading to a normalization of dysfunction. The host describes toxic ...

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