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PsycHacks

Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides listeners with a brief, thought-provoking episode several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by my clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each episode to inspire listeners to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light.

Episodes

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Episode 466: A horse in the rain (how to pass through suffering)

23 Sep 2024
9m
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This podcast episode delves into the themes of acceptance and hope in the midst of suffering, presenting the idea of "strategic surrender" as a means to cope with life's inevitable changes. Dr. Taraban eloquently illustrates how embracing our current circumstances, much like the American bison enduring a blizzard, can ...

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Episode 465: The cherry on top (women are luxury goods)

20 Sep 2024
10m
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This podcast episode delves into the evolving perspectives on gender roles and relationships, particularly examining the implications of women's liberation and the expectations placed on them in modern society. Dr. Taraban argues that while women have gained the freedom to pursue their own desires, this shift has led t...

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Episode 464: Dating off the beaten path (what to do if you are unconventional)

16 Sep 2024
8m
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This podcast episode delves into the nuanced challenges of dating for unconventional individuals, presenting the idea that seeking out non-traditional environments aligned with personal interests can foster deeper and more meaningful connections. Dr. Taraban encourages listeners to embrace their unique passions, take r...

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Episode 463: The privilege of losing (paying the cost of winning)

13 Sep 2024
9m
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This podcast episode delves into the emotional complexities surrounding success and winning, highlighting the burdens that come with maintaining achievements versus the liberating hope found in striving for future goals. Dr. Taraban emphasizes how winners often grapple with pressure and accountability, leading to feeli...

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Episode 462: Dating after 50 (challenges and opportunities)

09 Sep 2024
10m
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This podcast episode explores the evolving dynamics of relationships after 50, emphasizing that as individuals mature, the value they seek in partners changes. Dr. Taraban highlights the complexities of need, the potential for authentic connections devoid of pressure, and the significance of effort in building meaningf...

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Episode 461: Write your own invitation (how to make friends as an adult man)

06 Sep 2024
9m
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This podcast episode delves into the pivotal role of audience-building in accessing opportunities and combatting male loneliness, highlighting that successful relationships are rooted in the value one offers to others. Dr. Taraban discusses how busy individuals make strategic choices based on opportunity costs, paralle...

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Episode 460: Don't fight to keep people (you lose when you win)

02 Sep 2024
9m
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This podcast episode delves into Dr. Taraban's anti-cult approach to relationships, advocating for the principles of easy entry and exit to foster respect and caution among individuals. He highlights the importance of gracefully letting go of those who wish to leave, steering clear of justifications that can breed rese...

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Episode 459: Saying the quiet part loud (emperors must wear clothes)

30 Aug 2024
14m
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Episode 458: Why dating advice is terrible (half right is all wrong)

26 Aug 2024
10m
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This podcast episode delves into the intricate dynamics of relationships, emphasizing the significant role of attractiveness alongside psychological and interpersonal factors. Dr. Taraban critiques conventional dating advice by highlighting how individuals with higher attractiveness typically have better opportunities ...

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Episode 457: How to lead your woman (lessons from the front)

23 Aug 2024
10m
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This podcast episode highlights the critical role of understanding your partner's strengths and weaknesses within relationships, akin to a military commander issuing relatable directives. Dr. Taraban advocates for a coaching approach that balances encouragement with acknowledgment of limits, while cautioning against th...

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Episode 456: Why people can't find love (understanding what you're searching for)

19 Aug 2024
9m
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This podcast episode examines the profound distinction between love and mere gratification, as Dr. Taraban argues that many individuals are trapped in a quest for the latter instead of authentic love. Through insightful analogies and candid discussions, he highlights that true love is characterized by selflessness, sac...

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Episode 455: How to date without going crazy (walking the razor's edge)

16 Aug 2024
8m
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This podcast episode delves into Dr. Taraban's innovative approach to modern dating, advocating for a strategy of "walking the razor's edge," which encourages listeners to fully engage with the present by releasing burdens of past relationships and anxieties about future ones. By maintaining high hopes while keeping ex...

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Episode 454: You always break your own heart (the death of a dream)

12 Aug 2024
10m
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Episode 453: Making women feel right is a business (telling people what they want to hear pays well)

09 Aug 2024
9m
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This podcast episode examines the phenomenon of "making women feel right," where creators cater to women's fantasies through emotional validation and idealized portrayals of relationships. Dr. Orion Taraban discusses the tactics used by these creators to play the role of perfect partners while cautioning against the da...

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Episode 452: The old man at the club (how to deal with aging out)

05 Aug 2024
9m
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This podcast episode challenges the myths surrounding aging and relationships, particularly the anxiety men face about becoming the "old guy at the club." Dr. Orion Taraban reframes this narrative by asserting that fulfillment and meaningful connections are attainable at any stage of life, urging listeners to find thei...

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Episode 451: The secret of a successful relationship (get your needs met elsewhere)

02 Aug 2024
11m
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This podcast episode reveals Dr. Orion Taraban's journey towards redefining his approach to relationships by focusing on needs rather than mere desires, sparked by a mentor's unexpected question. Through personal anecdotes, he emphasizes the significance of identifying what uniquely fulfills romantic needs, advocating ...

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Episode 450: How men get suckered into fighting with women (why shouldn't you have to deal with it?)

29 Jul 2024
11m
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This podcast episode delves into the intricate dynamics of conflict between men and women, highlighting how minor catalysts can escalate into significant arguments. It emphasizes the need for emotional mastery and resilience, proposing techniques like the Block and Replace method to foster positive thinking. By viewing...

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Episode 449: Why buy the cow? (how to give good milk)

26 Jul 2024
10m
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This podcast episode critically examines the shifting dynamics of the sexual marketplace, emphasizing how the availability of free sexual experiences impacts women's strategies for relationship commitment. Dr. Taraban highlights the challenges women face when attempting to demand higher 'prices' for intimacy in a lands...

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Episode 448: The problem with self-respect (most hills are not worth dying on)

22 Jul 2024
10m
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This podcast episode delves into the nuanced concept of self-respect, highlighting that while it is often celebrated as a virtue, it can have hidden costs that impact our interactions and relationships. By presenting insights from Dialectical Behavior Therapy, the episode explores how personal desires, relationship dyn...

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Episode 447: Why dating apps are making it harder to date (the perception of supply and demand)

19 Jul 2024
11m
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This podcast episode explores the challenges faced by individuals on dating apps and how the perception of supply and demand in the sexual marketplace influences dating behavior. The "fuckboy phenomenon" is discussed, highlighting the impact of market dynamics on men's behavior. The subjective experiences of men and wo...

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