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What if the reason you're stuck in life isn't a lack of talent, ambition, or opportunity, but the fact that you've been living someone else's definition of success?

In this Director's Cut episode, we're revisiting one of our more impactful conversations with Dr. Suzy Welch, a bestselling author, NYU professor, and creator of the Values Bridge framework (link below).

Tune in for lessons on:

✅ How to identify your core values and spot your "authenticity gap"

✅ Why so many people end up living someone else's version of success

✅ The surprising role values play in relationships, dating, and compatibility

✅ How to know if you're settling in your career or personal life

✅ The framework Suzy uses to make better financial decisions

✅ The power of cutting your losses and avoiding the sunk-cost fallacy

✅ Why there is no such thing as a "last best deal"

✅ The wisdom Suzy gained from grief, resilience, and starting over

Whether you're questioning your career path, rebuilding after a setback, or simply trying to understand yourself better, this episode will leave you with powerful questions and action items to apply right away.

Follow Suzy @suzywelch and check out The Values Bridge at https://thevaluesbridge.com/

Timestamps:

00:51: Introduction

01:47: How to watch this episode

04:50: Introducing Dr. Suzy Welch

06:35: 3 main data sets of Suzy’s ‘Becoming You’ class

07:20: Calculating your authenticity gap

08:12: Suzy analyzes Cherie and Jean’s core values

11:50: Breaking down the “eudemonia” value

17:40: Analyzing Jean’s top value (“beholderism”)

24:29: Analyzing the “belovedness” value

29:34: The 4 things that destroy you living your own life

35:20: How to know if you’re living a B+ Life

39:20: The meaning of “balance” for each person

43:00: Suzy’s top 2 pieces of money advice

48:30: How Suzy balanced working with her partner

53:36: Suzy’s re-entrance to the dating scene

59:00: Reinventing yourself as the world reinvents

1:02:51: Jean and Cherie look back on Suzy’s frameworks

1:05:30: Cherie’s biggest takeaway (“who’s life did I just live?”)

1:09:24: Jean’s biggest takeaway on beholderism

1:16:27: Taking the Values Bridge each year

1:18:40: Fostering an abundance mindset

1:21:30: The importance of cutting your losses

1:24:14: Cherie’s mantra of DILMO

1:25:18: Closing thoughts

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Stop Living a B+ Life: How to Find the Life You Actually Want | Suzy Welch

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