In today's episode of the Porn to Purpose podcast, Coach Yeadon and I explore how visibility plays a vital role in building integrity throughout the pørn recovery process. So many men try to white-knuckle it in the dark, believing secrecy is the only way to protect themselves. But what I've come to learn—and what we discuss in this episode—is that being seen is actually one of the fastest ways to grow.

We talk about the resistance many of us feel toward being public or open about our struggle with pørn. We discuss the fears of being judged, exposed, or misunderstood—and how those fears are almost never realized. We also dig into how accountability, leadership, and visibility don't just keep us in line, they elevate us.

Top 10 Show Highlights:

[00:12] Kicking off the episode with a reflection on consistency and showing up.

[00:55] Breaking down the theme of the episode: visibility breeds integrity.

[01:53] The role public visibility played in launching Matt's personal recovery and coaching journey.

[03:20] How sharing your pørn recovery story publicly can deepen your commitment.

[04:13] Weekly tracker check-ins as an example of applied accountability in the community.

[05:10] Coach Yeadon's reflections on his previous career as a health coach and the power of being seen.

[06:36] The internal fear of sharing publicly about pørn recovery—and what actually happened.

[07:34] Stepping into integrity and leadership through transparency.

[08:03] How leadership in the community reinforces integrity and healing through service.

[09:37] Coach Yeadon shares how none of the feared judgment ever materialized when he became visible.

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EP 119: Visibility Breeds Integrity

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