#1026 - Alison Armstrong - How to Treat Men Better | Modern Wisdom

In this interview, Chris Williamson speaks with Alison Armstrong about her work on understanding men and women, paradigms in relationships, and achieving "heaven on earth" through love. They discuss the differences between pleasing and pleasuring men, women's instincts related to safety, and men's focus on security. Armstrong shares insights on what men seek in a partner, the four charming qualities in women (self-confidence, authenticity, passion, and receptivity), and the importance of women understanding men's needs for appreciation and feeling needed. The conversation explores emasculation, the "me versus not me" reaction in human interactions, and the significance of happiness in relationships, with Armstrong providing actionable advice for women to improve their understanding of men and create more fulfilling partnerships.

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#1026 - Alison Armstrong - How to Treat Men Better

Modern Wisdom

Introduction to Paradigms and the Pursuit of Love

Safety vs. Security and the Instincts of Men and Women

The 12 Key Factors Men Look For in a Partner and the Four Most Charming Qualities in a Woman

Receptivity, Appreciation, and the Search for Strength

The Conflict Between Independence and the Desire to be Needed

Submission, Trust, and the Impossible Ideal of "Him"

Needs, Vulnerability, and the Point of View

Lying, Honesty, and Emasculation

The Ways Women Emasculate Men and the Importance of Focus

More Ways Women Emasculate Men and the Justifications Behind It

What Men Value More Than Pleasing and the Three Essences of an Attractive Man

The Location of Feelings and the Importance of Happiness

Mate Value, Parental Investment, and the Sexy Son Hypothesis

The Importance of Happiness and the "Me vs. Not Me" Instinct

Tribalism, Accents, and the Importance of Transformation

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#1026 - Alison Armstrong - How to Treat Men Better

Modern Wisdom

00:00Introduction to Paradigms and the Pursuit of Love

Introduction to Paradigms and the Pursuit of Love

14:20Safety vs. Security and the Instincts of Men and Women

Safety vs. Security and the Instincts of Men and Women

27:54The 12 Key Factors Men Look For in a Partner and the Four Most Charming Qualities in a Woman

The 12 Key Factors Men Look For in a Partner and the Four Most Charming Qualities in a Woman

39:46Receptivity, Appreciation, and the Search for Strength

Receptivity, Appreciation, and the Search for Strength

53:04The Conflict Between Independence and the Desire to be Needed

The Conflict Between Independence and the Desire to be Needed

1:05:11Submission, Trust, and the Impossible Ideal of "Him"

Submission, Trust, and the Impossible Ideal of "Him"

1:17:35Needs, Vulnerability, and the Point of View

Needs, Vulnerability, and the Point of View

1:27:38Lying, Honesty, and Emasculation

Lying, Honesty, and Emasculation

1:39:42The Ways Women Emasculate Men and the Importance of Focus

The Ways Women Emasculate Men and the Importance of Focus

1:52:26More Ways Women Emasculate Men and the Justifications Behind It

More Ways Women Emasculate Men and the Justifications Behind It

2:00:21What Men Value More Than Pleasing and the Three Essences of an Attractive Man

What Men Value More Than Pleasing and the Three Essences of an Attractive Man

2:17:30The Location of Feelings and the Importance of Happiness

The Location of Feelings and the Importance of Happiness

2:27:08Mate Value, Parental Investment, and the Sexy Son Hypothesis

Mate Value, Parental Investment, and the Sexy Son Hypothesis

2:35:31The Importance of Happiness and the "Me vs. Not Me" Instinct

The Importance of Happiness and the "Me vs. Not Me" Instinct

2:47:43Tribalism, Accents, and the Importance of Transformation

Tribalism, Accents, and the Importance of Transformation

3:01:17Outro

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