38. What Does It Mean to Be a “Good” Man?

In this episode of "No Stupid Questions," Angela Duckworth and Stephen Dubner explore complex social dynamics, starting with a discussion on misandry and gender inequality, questioning whether contempt for men is justified given historical and current power imbalances. They consider the implications of the #MeToo movement, the concept of the "good German," and potential unintended consequences of policies aimed at gender equality, such as extended parental leave. Transitioning to psychology, they delve into rumination, its connection to depression, and gender differences in rumination tendencies. They discuss strategies for processing negative thoughts, referencing experts like James Gross and Ethan Cross, and share personal experiences with managing adverse events, ultimately concluding that while some self-reflection is valuable, excessive rumination can be detrimental.