This Modern Love podcast episode features an interview with actress Carrie Coon about her role in the film *His Three Daughters*, focusing on complex family relationships and the impact of ingrained family narratives. The conversation explores how family stories shape self-perception and relationships, using Coon's personal experiences and a read excerpt from a Modern Love essay as examples. Coon discusses her own childhood experiences with a withholding family dynamic and the transformative impact of her grandmother's unwavering love and support. The episode highlights the importance of self-awareness and challenging pre-conceived notions about oneself and others to foster healthier relationships. A key takeaway is the distinction between pity and genuine love, and the necessity of setting boundaries to protect one's emotional well-being.
