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The New York Times · Lifestyle

Modern Love

For more than 20 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast. Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and Amazon Music. You can also subscribe via your favorite podcast app here https://www.nytimes.com/activate-access/audio?source=podcatcher. For more podcasts and narrated articles, download The New York Times app at nytimes.com/app.

Episodes

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Un-Marry Me!

14 Feb 2024
27m
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This podcast episode explores the complexities of marriage and relationships, particularly focusing on Dave and Kristen's journey as a couple navigating Dave's Asperger's Syndrome, their eventual unmarrying, and their subsequent "unmarried" relationship. The podcast highlights the challenges and growth they experienced...

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I Married My Subway Crush

06 Dec 2023
28m
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This podcast episode beautifully weaves together stories of love, loss, and the longing for human connection. From Zoe Fishman's unrequited crush to a mother's resilience in the face of tragedy, each story captures the complexity of human emotions and experiences, reminding us of the fragility and tenacity of our conne...

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Author Read: I Married My Subway Crush

06 Dec 2023
12m
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This podcast episode discusses the theme of love and loss, as it explores various stories of love, heartbreak, and the enduring presence of loved ones even after their passing. The speaker reflects on the power of intuition and clairvoyance in times of grief, as well as the ways in which children can channel the spirit...

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Author Read: Our 34-Year Age Gap Didn’t Matter, Until It Did

01 Dec 2023
13m
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This podcast episode delves into the complexities of long-term relationships, midlife erotic reawakenings, regenerative agriculture, polyamorous family structures, and self-representation in legal matters. Through a series of personal and expert stories, the episode highlights the importance of creative solutions, hone...

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Our 34-Year Age Gap Didn’t Matter, Until It Did

29 Nov 2023
32m
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Overcome societal expectations and flourish in a loving relationship despite a significant age difference. From building a family to navigating the changes that enter old age in a relationship, love can triumph and evolve through shared experiences, communication, and understanding. Takeaways • Relationships with sign...

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Author Read: Two Boys on Bikes, Falling in Love

24 Nov 2023
10m
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This podcast episode weaves together poignant stories about young love, heartbreak, and the complexities of relationships, while also highlighting the importance of community and charitable giving. It encourages listeners to embrace the beauty and innocence of childhood love, navigate the challenges of heartbreak, and ...

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Two Boys on Bicycles, Falling in Love

22 Nov 2023
23m
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This podcast episode tells the story of Eric Darnell Pritchard, who grew up in Jamaica, Queens, New York in 1989 and felt different from others due to his bookish, larger, and feminine nature. His friendship with Elle, a new boy who moved in across the street, provided him with a sense of belonging and acceptance. Desp...

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Author Read: He Cared About Me, So I Broke Up With Him

17 Nov 2023
12m
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This podcast episode centers around Jessica's Modern Love essay about her relationship with David, delving into complexities of relationships, the impact of past trauma, and ultimately finding a lasting connection. Jessica reflects on her past relationships and her difficulty in trusting and committing due to past expe...

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He Cared About Me, So I Broke Up With Him

15 Nov 2023
29m
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This podcast episode follows Jessica Slice's dating experiences, from an initial meeting with David in a rose garden to their evolving relationship over eight years. Jessica reflects on her personal challenges, including disability disclosure, self-worth issues, and aversion to accessible guys. The journey explores the...

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Did I Fail as a Parent?

08 Nov 2023
29m
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This podcast episode focuses on the emotional intricacies associated with the challenging decision to place troubled youth in wilderness therapy programs and the long-term effects on families. The narrative delves into the varying perspectives of parents and children involved in such programs, shedding light on the str...

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Author Read: My Sweaty Revenge

03 Nov 2023
11m
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This podcast episode explores the complexities of navigating relationships, emotions, and conflicts in spin class settings. From seeking revenge on unfaithful partners to coping with the emotional turmoil of encountering ex-partners or their new partners, each story offers unique insights into the challenges and triump...

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My Sweaty Revenge

01 Nov 2023
18m
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This podcast episode revolves around the theme of betrayal and revenge, and the different forms it can take in our relationships. It explores the complexities of friendship, explores the delicate balance of power in a spin class, and the emotions and challenges that arise when relationships are challenged and broken. T...

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I Wrote This Essay, but Then Changed My Mind

25 Oct 2023
26m
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This episode of the Modern Love podcast presents an array of personal narratives, exploring the complexities of family relationships, abuse, forgiveness, healing, and the power of human connection. Heather Sellers revisits her experience of reconnecting with her estranged, abusive father ten years after writing an essa...

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Author Read: What Does It Mean to Be a Kept Woman?

20 Oct 2023
13m
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This podcast episode explores the complexities of interracial relationships, love, money, independence, and self-discovery. Deanna Fey shares her personal experience of falling in love with a man she never thought she would end up with, navigating interracial challenges in Shanghai, and facing societal expectations and...

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What Does It Mean to Be a Kept Woman?

18 Oct 2023
27m
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This podcast episode explores the complexities of interracial relationships through real-life stories and experiences of individuals. The podcast touches on themes of societal stereotypes, discrimination, and the challenges of navigating cultural differences while also highlighting the power of love and true connection...

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Author Read: Don’t Hide in the Bathroom Stall

13 Oct 2023
13m
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This podcast discusses various topics, including Susan Gelles' experiences with socializing and finding love through singles mixers, the challenges of converting office buildings into housing units, a woman's speed dating experience where she matched with a lawyer named Richard, and an unexpected love story that blosso...

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Don’t Hide in the Bathroom Stall

11 Oct 2023
26m
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This podcast episode follows Susan Gelles' journey to navigate the complexities of modern dating, from attending singles mixers to finding enduring love. Along the way, it highlights the challenges, awkwardness, and serendipitous moments of finding connections in the midst of societal expectations and personal preferen...

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Author Read: Have You Ever Kept a Secret From Your Wife?

06 Oct 2023
12m
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This podcast episode offers a range of profound and personal stories from different speakers, exploring themes of confronting hidden secrets, addressing an inferiority complex, overcoming infidelity, confessing security clearance interrogations, and the virtues of self-acceptance, open communication, and forgiveness in...

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Have You Ever Kept a Secret From Your Wife?

04 Oct 2023
30m
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This thought-provoking podcast episode delves into the personal experiences of individuals who faced scrutiny, suspicion, and betrayal in their relationships. From a polygraph test that exposes an infidelity secret to the fallout of extramarital affairs and the navigation of shared truths, the episode explores the comp...

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I Needed David Schwimmer’s Help

02 Aug 2023
25m
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This podcast episode explores Samantha Joseph's journey through estrangement, mental illness, grief, and the search for understanding after her aunt Gail's suicide. It delves into her complex feelings of guilt, regret, and the desire for closure, as well as her eventual realization that sometimes there may not be logic...

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