

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled
In the 25+ years Janet Lansbury has worked with children and parents, she's learned a lot. She's here to share it with you. Each episode of Unruffled addresses a reader's parenting issue through the lens of Janet's respectful parenting approach, consistently offering a perspective shift that ultimately frees parents of the need for scripts, strategies, tricks, and tactics. Janet is a parenting author and consultant whose website (JanetLansbury.com) is visited by millions of readers annually. Her work informs, inspires, and supports caregivers of infants and toddlers across the globe, helping to create authentic relationships of respect, trust, and love. Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at NoBadKidsCourse and JanetLansbury. Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Child Care: A Guide to Respectful Parenting" are available in all formats at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or wherever you buy your books. Featured in The New Yorker, recommended 'Best Parenting Podcast' by The Washington Post, The New York Times, USA Today, The Cut, Fatherly, Today's Parent, and many, many more. Please note: This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The views and advice presented on this podcast by Janet Lansbury and her guests are based on their training and experience. Opinions are offered in good faith but do not constitute professional, psychiatric, or medical advice, neither are they intended to be. You do not have to use this information, and it should not be substituted for qualified medical expertise. Copyright JLML Press (2026) All Rights Reserved
Episodes


Dealing with Judgmental Comments About Our Parenting

Potty Learning: How and Why to Let Children Lead the Way

How to Truly Connect When You Correct
A parent struggles with the distinction between setting healthy boundaries and unintentionally inducing shame in her three-year-old son during moments of dysregulation. While she prefers a calm, gentle intervention, her husband tends to be firmer, sometimes leading to the child appearing quiet and ashamed. Children oft...

How to Survive an Upset Child
Parenting through a child’s meltdowns requires shifting from a "fixer" mindset to one of calm acceptance. Rather than viewing emotional outbursts as problems to be suppressed, treat them as healthy, necessary expressions of a child's internal state. Setting firm boundaries is essential, but it must be paired with the w...

We Can't Make Them Share

3 Reasons Your Toddler Rejects You for Their Other Parent

Setting Boundaries Without Power Struggles
Managing a five-year-old’s challenging behavior during major family transitions, such as the impending arrival of a new sibling, requires shifting from reactive discipline to proactive, empathetic boundary-setting. Children often express internal distress and feelings of displacement through unkind actions toward sibli...

My Child Is So Mean to Me

Navigating the Playground with a Child Who Seems Too Physical, Bossy, Huggy, or Shy

It's Never About the Watermelon: What's Really Behind Your Child's Behavior (And What Actually Helps)

How Forcing Kids to Do Stuff Backfires (And What to Do Instead)

The Joy of a Self-Entertained Toddler (Yes, It's Possible!)

Why Parents Need RIE (with Melani Ladygo)

Finding Your Voice for Setting Limits

Disturbing Things Kids Bring Home From School

Demands, Wild Behavior, and Parent Guilt

Becoming Untriggered (with Lavinia Brown and Andrew Lynn)

Raising Can-Do Kids

Separation Anxiety, Meltdowns... The Solution Is Often in Our Face
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