How people are using AI to grieve, love and connect | Jennifer Cearns

AI acts as a mirror for human nature rather than a replacement for genuine connection. Digital anthropologist Jennifer Cearns argues that forming relationships with non-human entities is a deeply rooted human behavior, evidenced by historical connections to animals, deities, and spirits. By engaging with AI, individuals navigate complex emotions—such as grief, loneliness, and the desire for compassion—in a private, conversational space. Case studies involving users who find solace in AI chatbots demonstrate that these interactions serve as a practice ground for moral and social reasoning. Rather than eroding humanity, these technologies reveal the fundamental human drive to seek connection, process life’s messiness through dialogue, and define personal values. Ultimately, AI provides a new medium for the age-old human endeavor of understanding ourselves and others through meaningful exchange.