Deceit, infidelity, and betrayal profoundly shake our inner worlds. If you're struggling to heal from relational harm, you may be endlessly ruminating on the past and wondering why you can't just let it go. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra breaks down the process of forgiveness and provides seven reasons why you can’t get over it.

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Access this episode's companion worksheet here:

https://www.dralexandrasolomon.com/worksheets

Dr. Alexandra's e-course: Can I Trust You Again? Rebuilding after Betrayal or Deceit:

https://courses.dralexandrasolomon.com/can-i-trust-you-again-rebuilding-after-betrayal-or-deceit

Reimagining Love episode: "Tending to "Little You" & Exploring Your Family of Origin":

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tending-to-little-you-exploring-your-family-of-origin/id1588419386?i=1000584624154

Taking Sexy Back: How to Own Your Sexuality and Create the Relationships You Want by Dr. Alexandra Solomon:

https://bookshop.org/p/books/taking-sexy-back-how-to-own-your-sexuality-and-create-the-relationships-you-want-alexandra-h-solomon-phd/bb4e09f44fba80a8?ean=9781684033461&next=t&

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"Why Can't I Get Over It?"

Reimagining Love with Dr. Alexandra Solomon

"Why Can't I Get Over It?"