You just had to be there.

When podcast producer-turned-restaurateur Tiara Darnell closed her groundbreaking soul food restaurant, Blaxicocina, in Mexico City, she was forced to ask the same question TK was wrestling with: Who am I after the thing I thought would define me? Together, they reflect on leaving careers that no longer served them, building community from scratch, the rise and fall of Blaxicocina, and why sometimes choosing yourself means letting an old dream end so a new one can begin.

This side quest explores reinvention, creative risk, and the freedom that comes from refusing to keep life on the hardest difficulty setting.

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Side Quest: The Blaxicocina Era ft. Tiara Darnell

The Secret Life of TK Dutes

Side Quest: The Blaxicocina Era ft. Tiara Darnell