07 Mar 2026
1h 30m

Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 2 (Fan Fave)

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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

The episode explores the "sex recession" and declining birth rates, examining the sexual dynamics between men and women and the impact of technology on mating behaviors. William Costello, a researcher of incel communities, joins the conversation to discuss mismatches in the dating market, including the effects of birth control and dating apps. The conversation highlights how dating apps expose individuals to more potential mates than ever before, leading to commitment issues and fear of missing out. Costello and Bilyeu analyze the incel phenomenon, discussing the allure of victimhood identity and the potential dangers of encouraging insecure young men to re-engage in the mating market. They also touch on the potential impact of AI companions and the importance of cross-sex mind reading to reduce sexual conflict.

Outlines

Part 1: Modern Mating Dynamics

Part 2: The Incel Phenomenon

Part 3: Technology and Future Solutions

Part 4: Relationships and Evolutionary Psychology

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