28 Feb 2026
1h 31m

Mating Crisis: Why The Rate Of Single Men Looking For Dates Has Declined | William Costello PT 1

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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

The "sex recession" and its implications for society are examined, questioning whether declining birth rates pose a significant threat. William Costello, an evolutionary psychologist, offers insights into the evolving dynamics between men and women, particularly the scarcity-driven nature of the mating crisis. The conversation explores statistics indicating a shift in sexlessness between young men and women and delves into Pew Research suggesting a growing number of men are opting out of romantic pursuits altogether. Costello references Dr. David Buss's work on the mating crisis among educated women, highlighting the mismatch between women's educational achievements and the availability of eligible male partners. The discussion also covers the phenomenon of hypergamy and its potential decline, along with the consequences of women "mating down," including increased infidelity and intimate partner violence.

Outlines

Part 1: The Mating Crisis and Sexlessness

Part 2: Hypergamy and Shifting Market Dynamics

Part 3: Career, Motherhood, and Modern Cynicism

Part 4: Dating in the Modern Era

Part 5: Biology, Culture, and Parenting

Part 6: Societal Stability and Human Flourishing

Part 7: Evolutionary History and Monogamy

Part 8: Conclusion and Future Outlook

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