26 Jan 2026
27m

Episode 497: Patronizing perf reviews and can't get anything done as a tech lead

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Soft Skills Engineering

The podcast addresses concerns of feeling patronizing when giving feedback as a new manager, emphasizing the importance of clarity and honesty. It suggests that discomfort with giving feedback indicates empathy and that team members need clear direction, even if it means acknowledging a hierarchical dynamic. The hosts advise using gratitude-based praise and recognizing that different perspectives provide value. The podcast further explores the role of a tech lead, acknowledging the shift from individual coding to team support and proactive problem-solving. It encourages new tech leads to delegate tasks, develop team skills, and find satisfaction in the team's overall output rather than solely individual contributions.

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