03 Jan 2026
1h 8m

#1041 - Dr Debra Lieberman - Why Don’t You Have Sex With Your Sister?

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Modern Wisdom

In this interview, Chris Williamson and Debra Lieberman delve into the evolutionary reasons behind incest avoidance, exploring how humans and animals detect genetic relatives and the roles of cues like breastfeeding and co-residence in triggering aversion. They discuss the Westermark effect, genetic sexual attraction, and moral dumbfounding, and also transition to the evolutionary purpose of crying, with Lieberman explaining her theory that tears are a tool used by the lower-leveraged to communicate value and negotiate costs in relationships, and the conversation touches on the nuances of crocodile tears and the potential for tears to recalibrate emotional states.

Outlines

Part 1: Kin Detection, Incest Avoidance

Part 2: Psychology of Disgust, Taboos

Part 3: Evolutionary Purpose of Crying

Part 4: Emotional Regulation, Pain

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