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it's a week for the juicy j's! in this episode, our (almost) favorite co-host james dives into the never ending quest to fit in ~ a vulnerable conversation about friendship, finding a sense of belonging, and what it means to "fit in." so grab your mugs and get cozy to navigate this feeling of trying to our people and most importantly, ourselves!

today's specialty drink of the day: miso soup

chapters

(00:00:00) intro

(00:01:33) drink of the day

(00:03:14) today’s topic

(00:04:34) james’s story

(00:08:19) identity search through other people

(00:12:21) identity whac-a-mole

(00:13:52) intermission

(00:20:29) the never ending quest to fit in

(00:24:39) james’s relationship with sarah

(00:26:27) different friends for different reasons

(00:26:48) holding yourself back (because of social life)

(00:28:11) the “self”

(00:31:00) on loneliness

(00:32:57) what fills your cup?

(00:35:31) outro

(00:37:27) bloopers

the never ending quest to fit in (and why I quit)

soju with sarah

the never ending quest to fit in (and why I quit)