Be a houseguest who gets invited back

This episode of NPR's Life Kit features an interview with etiquette expert Elaine Swann, providing guidelines on how to be a good houseguest. The discussion covers preparing a host for your arrival, including how much advance notice to give, what information to share beforehand (like dietary restrictions), and whether it's acceptable to ask to stay without an explicit invitation. Swann emphasizes being considerate, self-sufficient, and mindful of the host's schedule and home, suggesting a three-to-four-day stay is ideal unless it's a special occasion. The conversation also touches on gift-giving etiquette, cleaning up, and recognizing cues that it's time to leave, stressing the importance of open communication and respect for the host's boundaries.