29 Jul 2025
15m

What to Say to Someone Who’s Grieving

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The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

In this episode of The Jefferson Fisher Podcast, Jefferson addresses the difficulty of communicating with someone who is grieving. He advises against offering generic help with phrases like "let me know if," as it places the burden on the grieving person. Instead, he suggests taking concrete actions like mowing the lawn or delivering food. He also cautions against asking for details about the loss, especially when it's recent, and advises against trying to force positivity, recommending instead to acknowledge and agree with their pain. Jefferson emphasizes the importance of being genuine and present, and if one is not in a position to help, it's better not to offer insincere assistance.

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