10 Jul 2025
22m

How to Own Healthy Assertion

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The Look & Sound of Leadership

The podcast explores the concept of healthy assertion, distinguishing it from passive and aggressive behaviors. It introduces awareness and expression as key steps toward achieving assertion, highlighting the importance of recognizing personal triggers, feelings, and boundaries. The host shares a story about a client named Cindy, who struggles with passive behavior and occasional explosive outbursts, to illustrate the challenges of finding a middle ground. The host emphasizes the role of fairness and emotional fluency in assertive communication, providing practical tools like "I" statements and a four-part script involving situation, feelings, wants, and outcomes. The podcast also recommends resources such as Brene Brown's "Dare to Lead" and the book "Crucial Conversations" to aid listeners in their journey toward healthy assertion.

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