How to get on the same page about money with your partner

This Life Kit podcast episode explores how differing money personalities affect romantic relationships. Host Marielle Segarra interviews licensed counselor Shay Harris-Pierre, who outlines four common "money scripts"—avoidant, status-driven, worshipful, and vigilant—and how these impact couples' communication and financial decisions. Harris-Pierre suggests asking questions like "How did you earn your first dollar?" to understand a partner's financial values early in a relationship. The episode offers practical advice on navigating money conflicts by encouraging open communication, identifying underlying anxieties, and finding compromises that respect both partners' values. Ultimately, the podcast aims to help listeners build healthier financial relationships.