Episode 366: Sexual Fantasies Across Cultures

Dr. Justin Lehmiller introduces a conversation with Marielle de Goede, a psychologist and researcher from Amsterdam, about sexual fantasies. They discuss the similarities and differences in fantasies across cultures, particularly between the United States and the Netherlands, highlighting the role of taboos and cultural norms in shaping these fantasies. The conversation explores the prevalence of certain fantasies, such as cuckolding and BDSM, and delves into the feelings of shame and embarrassment associated with them. They also touch on the origins of fantasies, the influence of age, and offer tips on how to communicate about fantasies with a partner, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability and understanding emotional needs. Dr. Lehmiller also promotes his study abroad courses through Sexual Health Alliance.