Patti Stanger - How To Attract & Keep The Right Partner For You | The Bossticks

Patti Stanger, the millionaire matchmaker, joins The Skinny Confidential Him And Her podcast to discuss relationships, ancestral wounds, and manifestation. Stanger emphasizes the importance of women speaking up for their desires and avoiding the tendency to please others. She highlights resentment as a primary reason for relationship breakdowns, stressing the need for partners to listen and validate each other's feelings. Drawing from her experiences, Stanger advocates for meditation, raising one's vibration, and breaking ancestral patterns to attract better partners. She shares personal anecdotes, including her journey of discovering her biological family and her experiences with dating, to illustrate the principles of self-awareness and manifestation in finding love. The conversation also explores the dynamics of power, cheating, and the evolving landscape of dating in the digital age.

Outlines

Part 1: Personal Background, Trauma, and Heritage

Part 2: Mindset, Manifestation, and Vibration

Part 3: Self-Talk and Relationship Dynamics

Part 4: Attraction Strategies and Dating Tactics

Part 5: Power Dynamics and Gender Roles

Part 6: Infidelity and Modern Relationship Structures

Part 7: The Rules of Engagement

Part 8: Maintaining Marriage and Conflict Resolution

Part 9: Final Advice and Tools

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Patti Stanger - How To Attract & Keep The Right Partner For You

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Part 1: Personal Background, Trauma, and Heritage

00:25Women's Fear of Speaking Up, Patti's Dating Type, and Intimidation by Success

Women's Fear of Speaking Up, Patti's Dating Type, and Intimidation by Success

03:50Patti's Quick Assessment of Couples, Red Flags, and the Importance of Being Heard

Patti's Quick Assessment of Couples, Red Flags, and the Importance of Being Heard

05:56Navigating Long-Windedness, Patti's Adoption, and Discovering Her Father's Identity

Navigating Long-Windedness, Patti's Adoption, and Discovering Her Father's Identity

07:41Traumatic Childhood, Matchmaking Heritage, and Epigenetics

Traumatic Childhood, Matchmaking Heritage, and Epigenetics

Part 2: Mindset, Manifestation, and Vibration

10:30Changing Your Brain, Affirmations, and Raising Your Vibration

Changing Your Brain, Affirmations, and Raising Your Vibration

12:53Redefining Who You Want, Manifesting Love, and the Power of Affirmations

Redefining Who You Want, Manifesting Love, and the Power of Affirmations

15:37Lucid Affirmations, Gratitude, and Patti's Extroverted Personality

Lucid Affirmations, Gratitude, and Patti's Extroverted Personality

17:20Patti's New TV Show, Breaking Patterns, and Ancestral Wounds

Patti's New TV Show, Breaking Patterns, and Ancestral Wounds

Part 3: Self-Talk and Relationship Dynamics

19:41Overcoming Negative Self-Talk, Michael's Childhood, and the Power of "Watch Me"

Overcoming Negative Self-Talk, Michael's Childhood, and the Power of "Watch Me"

21:21The Importance of Self-Enthusiasm, Quiet Confidence, and a Clean Vibrational Frequency

The Importance of Self-Enthusiasm, Quiet Confidence, and a Clean Vibrational Frequency

24:40Aloofness, Destiny, and the Importance of Speaking Up

Aloofness, Destiny, and the Importance of Speaking Up

31:52Women's Fear of Speaking Up and the Main Reason People Can't Find a Partner

Women's Fear of Speaking Up and the Main Reason People Can't Find a Partner

Part 4: Attraction Strategies and Dating Tactics

33:37Finding Men, Attracting Energy, and the Power of Pheromones

Finding Men, Attracting Energy, and the Power of Pheromones

36:12Patti's Tinder Date, Desperate Energy, and the Importance of Backup

Patti's Tinder Date, Desperate Energy, and the Importance of Backup

38:40Leveling Up, Clearing Your Vibration, and Making a Short List

Leveling Up, Clearing Your Vibration, and Making a Short List

40:51Giving It to God, Moving Your Cheese, and What Men Are Doing Wrong

Giving It to God, Moving Your Cheese, and What Men Are Doing Wrong

42:24Men Not Asking Women Out, the Apps, and Endless Options

Men Not Asking Women Out, the Apps, and Endless Options

Part 5: Power Dynamics and Gender Roles

44:32Controlling the Board, Independence, and Alpha Women

Controlling the Board, Independence, and Alpha Women

46:26Alpha at Times, Great Sex, and Supporting Them

Alpha at Times, Great Sex, and Supporting Them

47:51East Coast Men, Lauren Sanchez, and Switching It Off

East Coast Men, Lauren Sanchez, and Switching It Off

49:06Meeting the Elite, Kate Middleton, and Leading with Money

Meeting the Elite, Kate Middleton, and Leading with Money

50:50Security, the Girlfriend Experience, and Narcissistic Relationships

Security, the Girlfriend Experience, and Narcissistic Relationships

Part 6: Infidelity and Modern Relationship Structures

53:19Why Are Men Cheating?

Why Are Men Cheating?

54:25Squarespace Ad

Squarespace Ad

59:03Women Straying Away, DL Cheating, and Open Relationships

Women Straying Away, DL Cheating, and Open Relationships

1:00:31Sex Parties and Voyeurism

Sex Parties and Voyeurism

1:02:13Swingers, Polygamy, and Cock on the Clock

Swingers, Polygamy, and Cock on the Clock

Part 7: The Rules of Engagement

1:04:11Waiting Three Months, Oxytocin, and Punch Drunk Love

Waiting Three Months, Oxytocin, and Punch Drunk Love

1:06:11Actions, Dangle the Carrot, and Never Call a Man

Actions, Dangle the Carrot, and Never Call a Man

1:07:24Pheromone Fragrance and Do Nothing

Pheromone Fragrance and Do Nothing

1:08:30Men Want to Hunt and the Games

Men Want to Hunt and the Games

1:10:01Men Have More Options and the First 90 Days

Men Have More Options and the First 90 Days

1:11:25Love Bombing and Pen Pal Relationships

Love Bombing and Pen Pal Relationships

Part 8: Maintaining Marriage and Conflict Resolution

1:12:10Discouraged, Games When Married, and Secretive

Discouraged, Games When Married, and Secretive

1:13:16Recently Deleted Text and Push-Pull

Recently Deleted Text and Push-Pull