In this podcast episode, renowned Harvard professor and bestselling author Arthur Brooks discusses happiness, relationships, and the neuroscience behind them. He highlights the importance of treating one's life like a startup and emphasizes the four key areas for happiness: family life, friendships, work, and a spiritual or metaphysical journey. Brooks also addresses the challenges of finding a partner in the modern dating market, the reasons behind bad relationship choices, and the significance of metacognition in breaking the cycle of making bad decisions. The episode explores the impact of knowledge on happiness, optimizing morning routines for increased creativity and focus, and the importance of language and social media in conflict resolution. The speakers also delve into the nature of envy, gratitude as its antidote, and the importance of supporting sponsors and entrepreneurs. This episode provides insights and practical advice on building a happier life.