"What does it actually take to get a family office to back you? In this episode, Prashant sits down with Slava Darkhaev, a family office investor based in Cyprus who deploys into emerging VC managers and direct deals across the US market.

Slava breaks down how he evaluates first-time fund managers, what a real competitive edge looks like versus a rehearsed pitch, and why network quality matters far more than network size. They also get into portfolio construction, co-investment strategy, the emerging markets opportunity, and the biggest mistakes fund managers make when fundraising.

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Topics covered:

— What "right to exist" really means for a fund manager

— How to evaluate GPs before they have a track record

— Why the VC power law makes network everything

— LP book vs. direct co-investments — how to run both

— Diversification as upside management, not downside protection

— India, Southeast Asia & Latin America — the emerging market thesis

— The #1 fundraising mistake GPs make repeatedly"

If you're a GP raising your first or second fund — or an LP trying to build a smarter allocation strategy — this one is for you.

TIMESTAMPS

(00:00) - Episode Highlights

(00:51) - Introduction to Slava Darkhaev & the Episode

(02:19) - The 'Right to Exist' for VCs vs. Founders

(05:02) - How to Identify and Back Top-Tier GPs

(07:11) - Benchmarking Emerging Managers: The Insider Approach

(08:42) - The #1 Trait Separating Top GPs from the Rest

(11:05) - Strategy for Direct Investments vs. LP Investments

(12:43) - Securing Co-Investment and Pro-Rata Rights

(13:51) - A Different Take on Diversification in Venture Capital

(16:07) - Investing Thesis on Emerging Trends and Macro Cycles

(17:27) - Due Diligence for a Manager's Subsequent Fund

(19:22) - Family Office Asset Allocation to Venture Capital

(20:02) - Investing in 'Unproven' First-Time Managers

(21:29) - Approach to Investing in Global Emerging Markets

(24:58) - Key Advice for Fund Managers: The Power of Storytelling

(25:46) - Common Mistakes Fund Managers Make When Fundraising

(26:46) - Rapid Fire Round

(27:51) - Conclusion & How to Connect with Slava

LINKS

Slava Darkhaev - https://www.linkedin.com/in/slava-darkhaev/

Prashant Choubey - ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/choubeysahab⁠

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