Lindy West Thought She Couldn’t Handle Polyamory. She Was Wrong.

Lindy West discusses her book "Adult Braces," which explores the challenges and unexpected outcomes of opening her marriage to non-monogamy. West recounts how her husband, Aham, initially proposed the idea to avoid possessiveness, leading to a period of emotional turmoil and self-discovery. She describes her initial resistance, influenced by societal expectations, and her eventual journey towards accepting and even embracing the arrangement. This shift involved confronting insecurities, redefining her identity outside the marriage, and developing a connection with Aham's other partner, Roya. The narrative culminates in the formation of a romantic triad, which West describes as a customized marriage that provides her with more freedom and support.