In today's episode of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast, I dive into a mindset shift that is crucial for long-term recovery—failing forward. Recovery isn't about perfection; it's about learning, adjusting, and continuing to grow, even when setbacks happen. I share insights from my own journey, where I've experienced struggles but have also built the skills and tools necessary for sustained freedom.

This episode explores the difference between sobriety and recovery, why relapse doesn't erase progress, and how to build a strong framework that helps you get back on track faster. If you've ever felt like you're constantly starting over, this conversation is for you.

Top 10 Show Highlights:

[00:12] Introduction to the "failing forward" mindset—why recovery is a lifelong journey.

[02:05] The difference between sobriety (quantitative) and recovery (cumulative)—why counting days isn't enough.

[04:15] Understanding that relapse doesn't mean failure—you never lose the skills and lessons you've gained.

[06:00] How to analyze a relapse: What were the thoughts, triggers, and patterns that led up to it?

[08:22] The "recovery boat" analogy—why setbacks help reveal leaks in your framework so you can improve.

[10:45] How to use the Relapse Recovery Document to track patterns and adjust your strategy.

[13:10] Why accountability and community are essential for bouncing back stronger after a setback.

[15:30] How to shift your focus from "starting over" to "building forward"—each step counts.

[17:55] The importance of having a structured system—daily habits, check-ins, and proactive strategies.

[20:10] Final thoughts: This is a lifetime journey—progress over perfection.

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EP 98: Failing Forward in Recovery

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