In today's episode of the Pørn to Purpose podcast, we tackle the hidden force keeping most men trapped in a vicious loop of relapse and regret: isolation. Coach Yeadon and I expose the damaging belief that you have to fight your battle with pørn addiction alone — and why that belief is the doorway to shame, secrecy, and stagnation.

This conversation dives deep into the shame cycle — how secrecy breeds guilt, guilt leads to relapse, and the loop repeats endlessly. You'll learn why silence isn't strength, why connection is the antidote, and how speaking up in safe spaces can be the first true step toward lasting freedom. If you've ever told yourself "I'll deal with this on my own," this episode will shake you awake and show you the path out.

Top 10 Show Highlights:

[01:23] Introduction to the topic: "The one thing keeping you trapped in the shame cycle."

[02:50] Why the belief "I can do this alone" is the root of the problem for most men.

[03:22] "Shame thrives in the darkness" — the destructive power of secrecy.

[03:50] The #1 habit keeping most men stuck: fighting pørn addiction in isolation.

[05:16] Fear of judgment, rejection, and appearing weak — how these lies keep you hidden.

[05:45] "Shame dies when stories are told in safe spaces" — the power of vulnerability.

[06:36] Breaking down the shame cycle: urges, secrecy, relapse, repeat.

[08:18] "You don't have a pørn problem. You have a pain problem."

[10:19] How to begin breaking the cycle: speak to someone safe.

[17:45] "You don't get free and then tell the truth. You tell the truth — and then you get free."

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