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Mattering is a deep human need to feel valued beyond achievements. It's something we all need, but are we getting it?

The new book by Jennifer Breheney-Wallace focuses on "Mattering," discussing how societal pressures, particularly on teenagers, exacerbate this need.

She emphasizes the importance of adults feeling valued at work to better support their children.

Wallace suggests practical strategies like minimizing criticism, prioritizing affection, and fostering interdependent relationships.

She also highlights the impact of social media on extrinsic values and stresses the need for parents to focus on intrinsic values to raise resilient, well-rounded children.

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Mattering is a fundamental human need that drives behavior.
The adolescent years are particularly fragile for developing a sense of mattering.
Adults also struggle with feelings of not mattering, impacting their ability to support teens.
Building connections and support systems is essential for both parents and children.
Minimizing criticism and prioritizing affection helps children feel valued.
Surrounding oneself with supportive families can reinforce shared values.
Focusing on intrinsic values over extrinsic ones promotes better mental health.
Social media exacerbates feelings of inadequacy and should be monitored.
Parents can counter achievement pressures by communicating unconditional love.

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