Watch her 2-year Relationship Paralysis dissolve in 9 mins (Coaching with Joe)

The podcast addresses a woman's struggle with indecision in her relationship, which she recognizes is "driving her boyfriend crazy." The core issue is identified as codependency rather than simple indecision. The woman admits to a pattern of either trying to please her partner or feeling anger towards him or herself, all to avoid the potential heartbreak of making a decision about the relationship. Joe points out that her focus on her boyfriend's pain is a way to avoid her own feelings. He suggests that her job is to be present with the pain, both his and her own, and to leave when she can't handle it, rather than engaging in codependent behaviors.