Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

The conversation explores love and marriage as an economy where individuals exchange value, challenging traditional views and societal expectations. James Sexton, a lawyer, argues that people often enter marriage without clearly defining their goals or understanding its legal implications, leading to a high failure rate. He critiques the overcorrection in gender roles, where societal pressures create unrealistic expectations and antagonism between the sexes. The discussion highlights the impact of social media and advertising on relationships, suggesting they contribute to a sense of inadequacy and distort perceptions of reality. The speakers emphasize the importance of rituals, communication, and shared vision in maintaining a successful partnership, advocating for intentionality and preventative maintenance rather than relying on societal norms or magical thinking.