How to Shut Down Gaslighting Without Escalating

In this episode of The Jefferson Fisher Podcast, Jefferson discusses "weaponized confusion" as a tactic used in conversations to avoid accountability. He differentiates between genuine confusion and intentional obfuscation by focusing on the other person's willingness to learn and clarify. Jefferson outlines how to spot weaponized confusion, noting circular talking, vague language, and immediate exits from the conversation. He suggests strategies to counter this tactic, such as asking for the "headline" of the issue, distinguishing between facts and feelings, and slowing the conversation down to a manageable pace. The episode also features advertisements for Persil laundry detergent, Cozy Earth clothing, and Peak tea crystals.