Most Replayed Moment: What Women Really Want In A Man! Don’t Do This On A First Date!

In this interview, Steven Bartlett and his guest delve into the complexities of attraction and relationships. The guest explains that men often misunderstand what women find attractive, emphasizing that kindness and safety are desired from men women are already attracted to. The discussion covers practical tips for men to enhance their attractiveness, such as improving their appearance and communication skills, particularly by understanding feminine communication, which focuses on emotional resonance rather than just conveying information. They explore the concept of "contextual alpha" and the importance of renown over money in attracting partners. The conversation shifts to maintaining long-term relationships, highlighting the "crisis of disappointment" and the need to balance stability with excitement and novelty. They also touch on the exchange of values in relationships, including sex, security, and emotional support, and how these values are perceived differently by men and women at various life stages.