Masculinity as Confident Competence

In this episode of The Art of Manliness podcast, Brett McKay interviews Elliot Ackerman, a decorated Marine, former CIA paramilitary officer, and novelist, about the importance of competence and intentionality in men's lives. They discuss Ackerman's new column, "A Man Should Know," which explores essential skills for men, ranging from practical to social. Ackerman emphasizes that competence, combined with intentionality and purpose, is crucial for a man's sense of self and ability to navigate the world confidently. The conversation covers topics such as the value of mentorship, the importance of empathy, and specific skills like wearing a suit, maintaining friendships, and giving a eulogy. Both McKay and Ackerman share personal anecdotes and insights on how developing these skills can positively impact various aspects of a man's life, including relationships and career.