#97: His Processing - Personal Not Private

Shelley and Jason Martinkus of Redemptive Living Radio discuss the importance of transparency and vulnerability in relational recovery, particularly for men in recovery from addiction. They emphasize that personal recovery shouldn't remain private but should be shared with partners to foster intimacy and trust. Jason highlights the difference between sharing data versus experiences, encouraging men to express their feelings and vulnerabilities. They also address potential pitfalls, such as weaponizing shared information or using it to avoid genuine connection. Shelley adds the importance of women setting boundaries if the shared information is damaging and the need for men to create a safe space for their partners to share their own recovery processes. The episode also touches on the challenges and risks involved in being vulnerable and the importance of humility and safety in the relationship.