23: The Shame of Staying

In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal Podcast, Marnie and Duane discuss the shame experienced by individuals who choose to stay in a relationship after a betrayal. They address the cultural and social pressures that contribute to this shame, as well as the internal conflict partners face when deciding to remain in the relationship. They emphasize the importance of support, open communication, and self-trust in navigating these feelings, and they encourage addicts to acknowledge and validate their partner's experiences. They also offer advice on self-talk and setting realistic expectations for healing and recovery.