52: Embracing a Restorative Justice Model After Betrayal

In this episode of the "Helping Couples Heal" podcast, Marnie and Duane discuss the importance of using a restorative justice model versus a retributive justice model when helping couples heal from betrayal. They explain that while it's natural for a betrayed partner to feel anger and want the betrayer to suffer, a retributive approach can hinder long-term healing. They advocate for a restorative approach that focuses on repairing harm, taking responsibility, and fostering mutual empathy. This model empowers the betrayed partner to express their feelings and participate in the resolution, while also requiring the betrayer to understand the harm they've caused and take active steps toward repair and reintegration into the relationship, ultimately reducing the likelihood of continued offending behavior.