For years, I chased relationships from a wounded place, trying to prove my worth instead of owning it. I made partners my entire world, confused chemistry with compatibility, and stayed in relationships way longer than I should have because I lacked the courage to speak my truth. Everything shifted when I learned these five lessons about magnetism, healing, and what real love actually requires. This isn't theory - this is what worked for me after years of painful patterns, intensive therapy, and finally learning to choose alignment over chemistry. If you've ever felt stuck in the chase, attracted to the wrong people, or unsure why healthy relationships feel unfamiliar, this episode will show you exactly what needs to shift.

In this episode you will:

Discover why making someone your entire world pushes them away - and how to build a full life that makes you magnetic instead of clingy
Transform your dating criteria by understanding the critical difference between shared interests and shared values (and why only one actually lasts)
Break free from the cycle of chasing people who trigger your wounds by learning to recognize when attraction is actually a red flag from your nervous system
Master the daily choice framework that turns fleeting chemistry into lasting love - because real relationships aren't built on sparks, they're built on consistent character
Unlock true magnetism by shifting from proving your worth to owning it - the one change that makes healthy people finally feel attractive to you

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