This podcast episode discusses the research of developmental psychologist Gail Heyman on children's lying behavior and its development. Through an experiment with three-year-old children, Heyman found that lying is a normal behavior that starts at a young age. Children's lies at a young age are typically not very good and easily detected, but as they grow older, their lies become more sophisticated and are motivated by factors such as impression management and a desire to fit in. The episode also explores psychologist Jacqueline Johnson's insights into lying as a form of impression management, driven by the human desire to belong and be accepted. It examines the evolutionary significance of belonging and the complex relationship between lying, social dynamics, and the need for acceptance. The podcast highlights the impact of lies in relationships, emphasizing that the importance of considering the other person's preferences for honesty and feedback. It warns about the slippery slope of lying and the potential consequences of desensitization to dishonesty. The episode concludes by stressing the need to recognize the harmful effects of lying on trust and authenticity in relationships.
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