In this TED Talk Daily episode, host Elise Hu introduces psychiatrist and author George Blair-West, who discusses the complexities of modern relationships and marriage. Blair-West challenges the notion of "finding the one" and suggests that focusing on compatibility and commitment is more crucial for long-term success. He references research indicating that arranged marriages, particularly modern ones where both partners have a say, can have higher satisfaction rates than love marriages due to the emphasis on commitment over fleeting romantic feelings. Blair-West concludes by offering a definition of true love centered on mutual acceptance and commitment to personal growth, proposing that couples ask themselves if they genuinely accept and commit to nurturing each other rather than seeking an elusive "one."
