This episode of The Indicator from Planet Money explores the complexities of estate planning, highlighting that a disproportionate amount of focus is placed on assets rather than family relationships, which often leads to conflict. The podcast shares that $124 trillion is expected to be passed down over the next quarter century. It uses the story of "Mary," who is struggling with how to divide her assets between her son and stepdaughters, to illustrate the emotional challenges involved. Amy Castoro from the Williams Group emphasizes the importance of building family trust and communication, preparing heirs, and aligning on family values, while Louis Osterman, an estate planning lawyer, discusses the common pitfalls of fairness versus equality when dividing assets, including a story about siblings fighting over a vacuum cleaner. The hosts underscore that neglecting the relational aspects of estate planning can result in families falling apart, and they offer a formula for a more successful transition of wealth.