In this episode of Modern Love, Anna Martin interviews Elizabeth Laura Nelson about her close friendship with a man named Jeff. Elizabeth recounts how they met, their playful yet sometimes argumentative dynamic, and the unacknowledged romantic tension between them. She shares anecdotes, including their shared love for the movie "An Officer and a Gentleman" and their secret code names. The story takes a poignant turn when Jeff is diagnosed with cancer, leading to a period of estrangement due to his reluctance to seek conventional treatment. They eventually reconnect, explore a physical intimacy they had long avoided, and navigate Jeff's final days together, reflecting on their deep connection and the timing of their relationship.