This episode explores how conscious word choices can significantly enhance connection in communication. Against the backdrop of a growing awareness of mindful language, guest Marcy Axelrod, a bestselling author and communication expert, offers practical strategies. She highlights the subtle yet impactful difference between phrasing questions as "How can we...?" versus "How do we...?"—the former implying possibility, the latter implying collaborative action and shared agency. More significantly, Axelrod emphasizes the importance of using prepositions like "with" and "for" instead of "to" when describing actions, suggesting a shift from transactional interactions to more caring, relational ones. For instance, "showing up for a meeting" implies support and collaboration, unlike "showing up to a meeting," which feels more transactional. Axelrod's personal journey, marked by a childhood speech impediment, underscores the profound impact of word choice on human connection. Ultimately, the episode advocates for cultivating a mindset of care and presence, which naturally translates into more connected language, impacting not only immediate interactions but also rippling outwards to influence others.
