This episode explores the nature of addiction and effective recovery strategies, featuring insights from addiction treatment expert Ryan Soave. The discussion begins by differentiating between substance use disorders and addiction, emphasizing that addiction is often a solution to underlying stressors, rather than the problem itself. Against this backdrop, Soave details his approach, starting with medical stabilization and then delving into the individual's unique biological, psychological, and social factors. More significantly, the conversation highlights the crucial role of distress tolerance in recovery, emphasizing the need to build capacity for handling difficult emotions rather than simply suppressing them. For instance, Soave uses the analogy of learning "how to feel bad" to build resilience. As the discussion pivots to specific addictions, including alcohol, gambling, and pornography, the importance of community support (like 12-step programs) and the impact of readily available, dopamine-rich experiences are stressed. Finally, the episode introduces practical tools like the "emotional weather forecast" and yoga nidra (or non-sleep deep rest) to enhance self-awareness and distress tolerance, ultimately suggesting that overcoming addiction involves a holistic approach focusing on building a fulfilling life beyond the addictive behavior.