Uninhibited horniness, dirty talk, using the stoplight system (red yellow green), and connecting through information exchanges with fellow sex nerds—Jess shares how her love for learning and deep communication fuels authentic connections both in her personal life and as a legal courtesan.

00:00 Investing in connection and being a “huge nerd”

02:54 Growing up in a Chinese-American household where “food is care” + nostalgic dishes she loves to make

05:23 The continuous process of learning self love and why she wants to go to a head spa

08:15 Auralism, naked couch time, and feeling valued through shared experiences

11:37 Why she talks through TV shows and movies

18:06 The importance of feeling valued + ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and brothel health and safety practices

21:56 Using the red, yellow, green safeword system and all the ways she likes to communicate with partners

26:06 Her introduction to sex through Tamora Pierce books and Harry Potter fanfiction

31:03 Exploring her own body, scant sisterly sex advice, and a secret make-out with a cute Italian boy

34:16 Blowing ten guys at an uninhibited high school house party

37:09 Being SO horny and what she loves about penises

40:26 How oral turned into early kink explorations with trusted partners

📈 STATS | 30 pansexual American-born Chinese female, she/her pronouns, ethically non-monogamous, sex nerd, legal courtesan at Sheri’s Ranch near Las Vegas, from the East Coast, into: authentic connection, sapiosexuality, auralism, sensory play, MFM FFM threesomes, dicks, behavioral economics, ancient Greek history and literature

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