Vague feedback is a fail—neurodivergent minds need clear, direct guidance to thrive.

Is vague feedback just bad management, or are we failing neurodivergent employees by not giving them what they actually need? Kim sits down with the legendary Dr. Temple Grandin to challenge common misconceptions about feedback and explore why clarity is key—especially for those who think and process the world differently. They break down the myth that all employees should “just know” how to adjust their behavior and highlight how direct, actionable guidance can be a game-changer. From a welding mishap that turned into a major learning moment to the unexpected impact of a blunt deodorant comment (yes, really), Temple shares firsthand experiences that prove why specific, actionable feedback is a game-changer and how neurodivergent thinkers bring immense value when given the right support. Spoiler: generic platitudes and abstract advice won’t cut it. The bottom line? Guesswork isn’t leadership. Be clear, be kind, and stop making people read between the lines.

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(00:00:00) Introduction
Amy and Kim introduce Dr. Temple Gradin, an autism activist, author, and expert on animal welfare and behavior.

(00:02:04) Giving Feedback to Neurodivergent Employees
Temple shares a story on how clear, direct feedback works best.

(00:08:32) The Concept of Project Loyalty
Prioritizing team needs and focusing on the bigger picture to get work done.

(00:13:51) How Visual Thinkers Process Information
Temple explains her way of thinking through mental imagery and memories.

(00:19:10) Three Types of Thinkers
The different cognitive styles and why diverse teams need all types.

(00:23:20) The Importance of Hands-On Learning
Why real-world exposure matters for education.

(00:30:57) Managing Autistic Employees
The importance of setting clear goals and specific expectations.

(00:35:13) Transforming the Livestock Industry
Gaining credibility and transforming animal welfare through writing and advocacy.

(00:38:57) Workplace Accommodations for Autistic Employees
Strategies for supporting autistic employees in the workplace.

(00:42:18) Improving Animal Welfare Standards
Temple’s five key metrics for humane treatment in the meat industry.

(00:49:34) Why Verbal and Visual Thinkers Must Collaborate
The importance of collaboration between different cognitive styles.

(00:51:10) Conclusion

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