Three Ways to Respond to "I Hate You"

This Q&A podcast addresses listener concerns about incorporating the "Good Inside" parenting approach when a partner is skeptical. Dr. Becky reframes skepticism as a form of curiosity, emphasizing the importance of shared communication and understanding over complete agreement on parenting philosophies. She contrasts three parenting styles—punishment-based, overly permissive, and the "Good Inside" approach—using the example of a child saying "I hate you," illustrating how to set boundaries while validating feelings. The podcast concludes by suggesting that focusing on shared goals and open communication, rather than identical beliefs, is key to successful co-parenting, even with differing approaches.