Next-level self-love, wanting to connect, and a desire for fulfilling relationships—Olivia shares how her everyday practice of giving and receiving has led to a wonderful life.

00:00 Seizing every opportunity to treat herself

03:51 Generosity of adults in her early life and her own receiving superpowers

08:05 Healthy romanticizing and an expanded understanding of self-love

11:38 The difference between romantic, platonic and self love

13:38 A love of linguistic specificity and astrological geek-outs

16:46 Communicating clearly as a Black woman and being born into a state of receiving

21:43 Allowing others to nurture and how it differs from self-care

26:45 Desiring romance that begins with connected conversation and exploring partners’ passions

30:13 How Olivia’s love languages stem from what she wanted more of growing up

33:07 Cultivating fulfilling relationships of mutual care

36:26 A baseline of taking care of herself in order to be of service to others

41:11 The everyday pleasures of walking her dog, experiencing the arts, and breathing fresh air

📈 STATS | 28 straight (so far) sapiosexual demisexual Black/African American cis woman, she/her pronouns, single, celibate, thinking about dating, monogamous, threesome-curious bad bitch good girl with a praise kink into: compliments, intimate sex, foreplay, dirty talk

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